A girl friend of yours who you think/thought/believe to be so sincere.

One day, you wake up and she told you that she slept with guys other than her own boyfriend. To extend, it happen not just once and it started when she and her current boyfriend dated. She does felt sorry but she just can’t hold on to herself. Blame lust and temptation.

Change of thought? Or cultural shock?

Maybe just mind our own business.

Allowing your loved one to do whatever he wants to you does not seem wrong.
But allowing peoples you have crush on or you love other than your own loved one, no matter what’s the reason you are a slut.

Just like guy who slept around with different girls, no matter single or attached, he still being named as a player.

Once a slut/player, always will be. It takes time to change and a lot of effort to convince others. But in the mean time of proving yourself, thing repeat itself then… Haha… You either can start from ground zero or you already have lost the chance. Or you regretted of what you have done and manage to stay away for some time and you happen to do it again *ops… You did it again*, same ending goes to you.

LUST and TEMPTATION are so EVIL~ *I love it anyway *evil smile~*

Only those who really care about us, will understand, encourage and trust us that we have change to a better person when we REALLY regretting for what we have done. Beat some sense into us *the make suffer way maybe?*. Intention of their maybe hard to digest but it is good for us. *I personally like to push them deeper. They don’t go to hell then who will go to hell, right? *evil laugh*

There are many ways to do it, I mean those supporting/encourage/helping. Either the positive way or vise visa. Pushing the limit do help too. *I still prefer to push them deeper. Welcome to hell XD*

Had a conversation with one old lady (that’s what she labelled herself as). Not old la… Attractive, fun, caring and smart. She is just… how to say le… 30? Some said it is the most perfect moment of lady, just like Chateau Lafite-Rothschild Vintage 1978, perfect timing to drink right now. A success woman too as you want to know, single somemore.

The conversation is short, but gives a clear view of what a matured adult think from her own view and life experience.

Question revolved around cheating.
She answered with an example of her own that her ex-boyfriend cheated on her. She even told me that one of her married friend cheated on her husband until it gets too wild and got caught. The reason she cheats I think is either she is addicted or maybe something happens between the couple. I don’t remember exactly. She is the serial cheater type, you know, no regret on doing it.

But one thing she don’t know which is some people cheat but regret and then they cheat again after some time. She got no idea on that. Some happen even there is no reason for them to cheat, maybe got but we don’t know.

I remember watching one show on tv which it help people to investigate do their partner cheated on them. Forgot what’s the show name but I remember one of the stories. It involved a married couple. The lady suspicious that the guy cheated on her so she seeks for help lo. In the end, she caught the guy red handed with a tranny hold a whips spanking his ass. O_O Reason? Because the lady do not want to have that kind of action in their sex life. OMG! Paid a tranny for that. OMG X 100. At least get a proper girl la.. memalukan only.

Anyway, she told me that every cheating needs a motive to trigger. So, eventually everyone will cheat, depend also la.. What’s the reason. Even married couple also can cheat on their partner, so what’s wrong for those who haven’t engaged, right? As for single status, lagi worst no string attached play depend on self capability.

There is so much to learn, understand and adapt to which is one of the motive that push me to go forward. *Not just sex, love and cheating la… include other stuff like life experience, culture, lifestyle and etc… in short the world lo* That’s why I love listen to other’s stories. But I do think that we might not learn it all, if we do, we might be the founder of a new religion.

I may get very busybody if I got the mood to get to know things. Which is good and bad. XD

When someone said ” Too bad you already got boyfriend/girlfriend, If not I might take action” to you.

Assume you had crush on that person, do you feel that that person just push your button?

Dating other people when you are attached sound wrong but it does no harm when both of you are just friend. Still depend on the limitation, objectives, scope, boundaries, and functionalities one make up. RIGHT?

Does this consider appropriate? I mean the feeling you have when the person said that even you are attached. Moreover, will you go over the edge??

I had a bad day~
My phone drop on the floor~
When I get out from my car~ *Bad Day playing at background*

Photo from Simply Symbian

Just like the picture shown! WTF~
Plus some scratches on the side and screen! WTF~
*Continue with Daniel Powter – Bad Day*

P.S:Mana ada genuine casing selling? I want cheap one but genuine!

How you define the freedom between you and your partner?
How you define the space needed by both of you?
What type of privacy you want for yourself?
I don’t have the exact answer nor do my friends can provide. Everything written is based on discussion and observation.

Taking benefit from people around us are what we human do as long as it do not cause problem for either side. But by doing that for self’s enjoyment and satisfaction, to fulfill own lust. That’s is just something diffirent.

I do take advantages on other people but at least is allowed by them.

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Yea~ yea~ The title say it all~ I also don’t know why me doing it. Whatever la~ Just a childish act. The more you write/say, the more happier that person~

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Yesterday I noticed my friend msn’s personal message written an interesting sentences like this

“女人无所谓正派，正派是因为受到的诱惑不够;男人无所谓忠诚，忠诚是因为背叛的筹码太低！”

Translation : “There is no way to define how honest is a lady, as honesty is formed cause of there is not enough of temptation; There is no way to define how loyalty is a guy, as loyalty is formed due to the betting chip of betrayal is too low!”

What say you?

How do you all handle question that required you to answer sincerely? Do you just give it your thought and answer or rephrase the sentences so it does not sound like is your thought and is from other people’s thought with a little mixing of yours.
I been into situation where a person ask me a question and I give straight forward answer with a little addition information on what I read. After a couple of days, I was scolded for being judgmental over the issue.
And after a couple weeks, the same question pop up again. So, I try not to be so straight forward and I give an answer sound like “me and my friends discuss this issue before, so I reveal a bit of yours and try to get some answer. What my friend said……” And I get scolded on the spot for telling to other people.
Being straight forward, label as judgmental. Rephrase + twist around + include ‘fake’ friends’ opinion, label as betrayer or big mouth.
At one point, I really wanna say “If you don’t like the way I answer your question, don’t ever ask me”. You want my opinion, I give you my opinion. There will not be a 3rd party answer for you. Ops…. There is but that the way to avoid you to judge me saying I being judgmental and I don’t know anything about that issue.

Yea… I am talking to you… You are a slut and that’s who you are. What you did and behave created this image in mind. Not because your friend doesn’t understand your reasons but is what you do does not convince your friend that you are not. You don’t want to be label as that but you are willing to do it when you feel so. So, stop fucking around with my friend asking for opinion that you don’t really wanna hear of and go talk to those who understand you. Go find those who enjoy being around different men at night, they will understand you more than us, the normal people.

And you, my friend, don’t tolerance. Ignore her if possible.

“Oh.. she let other guys do this.. do that to her… but why not me? *CRY CRY CRY….* ”
“You wanna know why?
That is because I’m NOT attacted to you!
You’re NOT her type!”

I only allow people to get close to me only if I feel comfortable with them. And if they do get close to me, doesn’t means they all sleep with me.

When someone said something like this, people might thought of…
If the person is your type, you are attracted to him/her. He/Her is allow to get close to you if you feel comfy with them and might get the chance to sleep with you.
*based on you knowing that she been sleeping with other guy*

She is just another girl enjoying being around guys. Enjoying the sensuality.
*based on you don’t know her*

She is a horny player la. Would sleep with whoever suit her taste.
*If she got boyfriend, add the following line to the statement.*
Somemore cheated on boyfriend, can’t get what she want from the boyfriend. Didnot even think of the boyfriend before doing it. Only think of her own.
*based on what is the story about + if she got a boyfriend*

Whatever excuses or explanations is not enough to cover what ones have done. *quote from you know who you are* Just be judgmental as much as you want.
Just some of many assumptions made.

P.S: What a pity friend of my to fall in love to such girl.