Straight or Twisted?
How do you all handle question that required you to answer sincerely? Do you just give it your thought and answer or rephrase the sentences so it does not sound like is your thought and is from other people’s thought with a little mixing of yours.
I been into situation where a person ask me a question and I give straight forward answer with a little addition information on what I read. After a couple of days, I was scolded for being judgmental over the issue.
And after a couple weeks, the same question pop up again. So, I try not to be so straight forward and I give an answer sound like “me and my friends discuss this issue before, so I reveal a bit of yours and try to get some answer. What my friend said……” And I get scolded on the spot for telling to other people.
Being straight forward, label as judgmental. Rephrase + twist around + include ‘fake’ friends’ opinion, label as betrayer or big mouth.
At one point, I really wanna say “If you don’t like the way I answer your question, don’t ever ask me”. You want my opinion, I give you my opinion. There will not be a 3rd party answer for you. Ops…. There is but that the way to avoid you to judge me saying I being judgmental and I don’t know anything about that issue.
Yea… I am talking to you… You are a slut and that’s who you are. What you did and behave created this image in mind. Not because your friend doesn’t understand your reasons but is what you do does not convince your friend that you are not. You don’t want to be label as that but you are willing to do it when you feel so. So, stop fucking around with my friend asking for opinion that you don’t really wanna hear of and go talk to those who understand you. Go find those who enjoy being around different men at night, they will understand you more than us, the normal people.
And you, my friend, don’t tolerance. Ignore her if possible.
