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Pourquoi tricher?

Les gens qui trichent? Pourquoi les gens tricher en premier lieu? Pourquoi?
Ils ont triché parce que quelque chose avait disparu, et la sécurité nécessaires et a souhaité que l’attention n’a pas pu obtenir de leur importante.

Written by ~eviltoken and =elisiabattell individually

It is the space between that develops when our needs are not met that allows one person to consider cheating to fulfill the void.

Cheating is NOT an appropriate response to feeling neglected, unloved or unappreciated but it is a symptom of perhaps a larger problem in the relationship.

Ideally, we all would be able to talk to our partners when we’re feeling such disconnect. But it’s the disconnect that makes us fearful to broach any uncomfortable topics – including how we’re feeling like we’ve slipped down on the list of important things in our partner’s life.

If you are not getting what you want from the relationship, you TALK about it. If you’re not mature enough to talk about what you need with your spouse, then you’re not mature enough to even be in a relationship. And if you do that and still find yourself unsatisfied with the relationship, you either break up or get divorced. That’s it. No need for cheating ok? Or are you brave enough to cheat on your partner but not brave enough to face them and tell them that maybe the relationship should be over? Cheating is for cowards who don’t have the courage to tell their partner what is going on. However, there is NEVER an excuse to cheat.

What some say, about not realizing what you have until you could potentially lose it, is completely and utterly true, and it took sleeping with someone else for them to realize that. Wrong? Completely. Even though your significant other said will forgive u, but he/she will never forget what you have done. It will not be same as before no matter what you do. The damage is already done, there is no more turning back.

It takes time for both parties to get over it. The person who gets cheated on hurts more than the person who cheated. As the trust given to them is in vain. It might cause them not to trust anyone anymore. As for the cheater, if they realize cheating is not worthy in exchanging a nice relationship they already have, I do hope they will change but for those who said they will change but can’t get control over themselves due to temptation and happen to doing it again. I said shame on you. You can flirt, you can have friends, you can day dream, but never put thoughts into actions, because when you do, real feelings can be hurt.

Will they change? Yes, they will, either for the best as they don’t cheat anymore or for the worst as they will become serial cheater. Even they do have change but people still have prejudice about them as the potential of cheating is still there. Once a thief, always a thief. We do give chances and believes in them. But, we still judged them based on what they have done and hope they really change. Being Judgmental as they said.

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